Clean Your Lens

Have you ever felt like you were not good enough for others? Have you ever felt that you need to act a certain way so that you would be considered worthy of friendship? Or perhaps, have you ever felt that when you look at yourself in the mirror, you don't look the way you want [...]

Do You Like My Beach Body?

I love to say I'm in shape... cause round is a shape :)  Get it? I'm round... Okay, what kind of Dad joke is that? I'm just kiddin with you.  So let me explain what this beach body thing is all about. I just returned from a dream trip.  My wife and I got to [...]

Identity and Insecurity

Ever felt insecure?  Ever felt like you are just faking it until someone finds out? How about this one?  Have you ever felt like God wants you to do something, but everyone else will question your sanity in doing it?  Yup.  I know.  That one is hard, but I know how it feels.  In fact, [...]

Did Jesus have an Identity Crisis?

I bet that this title made you think.  In fact, I would be that this question makes you give a strong "NO!" or a curious "I hope not." That's fair.  That's why I asked. But make no mistake, my job today is not to confuse you.  My job today is to focus on the 6 [...]

What Am I Going To Do With My Life?

Are you graduating? Is Spring coming and you don't know what's next? What about if you already have your plan, but things just feel off for you.  You have the job, but you don't feel like you fit.  Don't get me wrong, you work with some great people, but is this really what God wants [...]

If I Wasn’t Me.

Have you ever thought something like, “I could accomplish more if I wasn’t me”?  I just did.  I mean, like 30 seconds before I typed this sentence I thought this.  What!  What am I thinking?  I’m supposed to be the victory in your identity guy. Well here is the reality.  God made us in His [...]

The 5 Minute Identity Workout

I used to feel weak in who I was.  Have you ever felt like that?  You know what I mean, like when someone asks you to describe yourself and you get all flustered. Let's say for example, you meet some new people.  They ask you to tell them about yourself.  The first bit goes OK, [...]

Are You Stressed?

Hey.  Are you stressed out?  Does life seem overwhelming right now?  Do you feel like you want to learn more about who you are, but life is fighting you? I'm so sorry that this is happening. But I'm glad we have each other.  I know that going through this alone only makes it worse. So [...]

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